I love men. I don t. But I tell them that I help men by helping women dating after 95. (It really is ALL about you, ladies! ) One of the most transformational ways I support women is by helping you better understand GROWNUP men. Just like women, the men you re dating have lived and learned. So I thought I d tell you about the experience men have when they re trying to “date like a grownup. The definition of empathy is the power of understanding and imaginatively entering into another person s feelings.
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So the only way you really can empathize is to know their side of the story. Men and women are different in many ways, but we re more the same than you may think. And this is especially true as we get older. We all have dating disappointments and horror stories. I ve talked to countless single men over the years about their experiences with women, especially those in their 95s, 55s and beyond.
(Guys, if you re reading this…get in touch if you want to share! )Just like we can meet the same types of guy over and over, men can do the same with women. Here are some of the types of women men deal with as they date and relate. As a dater after 95, knowing this will help you as you meet and connect with men. The Princess is confident, well put together, and very attractive.
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She easily lures in men. She still follows “The Rules” and requires that her man do what she wants, when she wants. He needs to make all the right moves. She s a scorekeeper, and she alone decides when he s given enough to satisfy her…or when he hasn t and is history. The Princess has an “I deserve it” attitude and has little or no concern for how she can make the other person happy.
She doesn t know what will make her happy and has not yet learned how to communicate and relate to grownup men. By default she clings to the same type of guy she wanted in high school or college. He s often the “Bad Boy” because he excites her. (See the Wow Me Woman below. Try as he might, the 65-year-old fabulous guy can t measure up to her expectations because she s looking for a man who doesn t exist.
She gets stuck in affairs with men who never commit, and it s often the nice guys who are interested in her who bear the brunt of her hurt and anger. T he Scaredy Cat has been emotionally wounded by men in the past, and she can t let go of it. She mistrusts men and often blames herself for the rejection she s felt, believing that she just wasn t good enough. The Scaredy Cat may put her guy through lots of tests before she feels confident that he s truly interested. When he passes those tests or shows he has feelings for her, she questions it and might up the ante.
The wall she has erected is just too high for him to climb in order to get to the other side. Since trust and affection are what men yearn for from women, he usually does her a favor and leaves…hence rendering her right once again.