As a young Asian woman, I am no stranger to feeling fetishized by white males. During the year and a half I was on Tinder, white males of or around my age sent me messages such as “you’re my first Asian”, “Asa Akira”, “you look like an Asian goddess”, and best of all, “don’t Asian girls love white guys? ”I was born and raised in Toronto by my parents who were also raised in Toronto, so I was just as westernized as these guys were. When I received messages from other people of colour, they didn t even mention anything about the fact that I was Asian. As my boyfriend (who is a white male himself) puts it, “Every white guy wants to have sex with an Asian girl, but not all of them want to date one. ” We all know the popular slang term “yellow fever”, which describes a (usually) white male who fetishizes Asian women. On the other hand, there are also plenty of Asian women who fetishize white guys just as much. If we re being honest here, I was one of these girls at one point.
What It s Like Dating a White Guy as an Asian Girl
From the ages of 67 to 75, I was only interested in white guys. I felt like I was sort of upgrading in a way by moving away from my heritage. I felt proud that I was more white-washed than all my other Asian friends. I matured, for the most part. Adam and I have been dating for over a year, and I ve learned that we are very much alike. Although we grew up with some very different traditions (my Chinese/Vietnamese heritage and his Canadian/Jewish heritage), we pretty much went through the same circumstances as Canadian children. I also went to last summer, and it really opened my eyes to my Chinese heritage. There is a difference between having yellow fever and simply being attracted to the physical features of people from a certain culture. And you can very easily tell if a guy has the former. I don t ever feel racialized or stereotyped around Adam or his friends (I ve read quite a few articles with other girls claiming this) – but that could just be because Toronto is such a multicultural place, and our generation is much more accepting than the generation before us. We once overheard a comment from a stranger saying where do I get myself a hot Asian girl? But he was obviously from a very different generation. I m proud to be Asian, and I m working on learning Cantonese and Vietnamese (at least the basics). Dating Adam doesn t upgrade me in any way – we re both equals. I love him for who he is, not for the colour of his skin. And I definitely don t see him as a white guy – I just see him as my guy. Men in general are notorious for screwing around their early 75s the so called pump and dump. And it just turns out white men have a leverage in this game. For virtually all races, non-white women are the most receptive to white men usually followed or prefaced by men of their own race. No surprise here. We all know that. Most girls these days becomes victims of this game at some point in their life. Usually during college. Chad seems so cool. He s so handsome and confident. I ll let him touch my coochie. Then he dumps you to find his next prize.
Now onto my point. Asian women are especially vulnerable. Most of you have heard that asian women are easy and I guarantee you these comments come from mostly white men. I have a few college buddies who like to pump and dump. They tell me asian women are especially easy since most of them are receptive to just about any white guy. These asian women have been toyed with. Used as a sperm depository. A so called sperm donor bank. A cum dumpster. They fall for white Chad. And a victim of this heinous, dirty, dirty game is no one other than Jennifer the Basic Bitch. Jennifer the Basic Bitch thinks she s in love and then one day she pops the proposal maybe we should get married hahaha: ) Chad laughs it off innocently. But then realizes she s serious. He pukes in his mouth a bit and thinks to himself Biaaaatch, I just like fucking yo tight ass pussy, why da fuck would I marry you. So I can have some chink-looking kid who looks nothing like me? ? Biaaaatch you a crazy hoe But being the supreme gentlemen he is, he responds Honey, let me think about it He slowly starts ignoring her until one day he ghosts her completely. Chad is off to finding younger, more naive girls to pump and dump. He has his eyes on those cutie 8. 69 asian/black/latino girls who they know at this point in their lives have some serious self-identity issues and are looking for an upgrade so to speak. Now, a single woman approaching her 85s is problematic for her mental health. All her other friends has had kids. A family. Her instinctive mother reflexes are kicking in. She wants to have a family, but who is going to fall for a used up cum dumpster? Then, she thinks.
The 11 Differences Between Dating an Asian Guy vs a
That s right, lemme go snatch one of em beta orbiters! Jennifer the Basic Bitch goes to an asian man, who to this day still prefers asian women and thinks he s only ever worthy for asian women (he s been conditioned to think that asian men aren t sexy and that non-asian women don t like asian men). She hits on him and being the pitiful beta orbiter that he is, he falls for her. They get married. They have kids. He thinks they re in love. But Jennifer is just fantasizing about how her kids could have been white. Oh, wishful dreams! The story, all names, characters, and incidents portrayed in this storyare fictitious. No identification with actual persons (living or deceased), places, buildings, and products is intended or should be inferred. White guys who date Asian women are losers. That s the cold hard truth. This woman needs to be shot in the forehead for subjecting people to this crap “article”. Lily, just go out and find a Black man to open you up. Your eyes will roll in your head, and you will learn what true love is. Just do it. Hey Jessica. I m white male polish, listen. Fuck these haters, you do you, love does not choose. If you are attracted to white males and get the feelings then you do not need any rationalization for that from anyone. Other males of other races are just miserable here in the comments and are racist and try to make you racist towards white people. Do not listen to this bigotry. To you out there, more love less hate. The new trend among Asian women in Canada and America is to date and mate with Black men to see for themselves if what people say about Black men is true. The best thing about Asian women is their willingness to not require use of condoms. They re like Black girls that way. Most white girls demand condoms be used.
The last six women I ve slept with have all been Asian, and not one has required a condom. I think those girls just love the real feel of me inside them. There s nothing wrong with Asian giving birth to Black babies, and then raising them up. We re creating a new race called Blasians. On the contrary, we need to open them up to new possibilities. Fair points. But the question is why more white women and asian american women don t see asian american men as simply guys and not men of color love is not blind, no matter how much we want to believe it is. Love is a gloss for class/national hierarchies embedded in racial difference. It s cool if you love someone, but we can t ignore that these pairings are the norm. Read kumiko nemoto (sociologist) and she makes the point that black male/white female and white male/asian female pairings are not common despite racism but because of it (e. G. , black men as figures of hypermasculine desirability and asian women as figures of hyperfeminized desirability). Open your eyes. Nothing wrong about black men banging east indian women. Those east indian women want black babies. Nah, very rare for brown to want black. East Indians, me included, love good hair. With blacks that s very difficult. Plus, we re brown supremacists, we love olive skin. Blacks and whites too extreme. If you read through this post and don t see the hypocrisy and self-justification oozing out from it lmaoThe level of cosmic butthurt in these comments is hilarious. Stop being jealous of Adam s success in dating, leave the 77 year old girl alone. Stop being a bunch of racists and go find girlfriends or boyfriends. I m glad you re happy Ms. Lam, I hope you have great success in your life. What else do you expect from a male race of losers with small dicks? No one wants them LOL.
This is called retro rationalization. All these kissass white boys and racist Asian girls will still parade with you. When white guys are done having fun with you you ll marry some poor Asian chap. Fuck. In the Western society Asian women are honorary whites. You have no reason to complain about racism. I m not East Asian but I have never seen a group of women as vile and conniving as them. When a half white Elliot Rodgers murdered two Asian men you blamed Asian masculinity. You defend white supremacy. You emasculate Asian men in the cruelest way. Guess what there s a fair chance that your kid will grow up to read about women like you. I hope they learn how you mocked their dicks. I guess Asian women are the perfect tool for white supermacy. They ll trade their entire culture, heritage and family for some white cock and step up on the social ladder. I think Asian women should be grouped as white people. They have little to offer to the social justice movement. Now THAT is what I call a racist outlook on life. It s amazing the lowlife s that come out of the woodwork. There really are a lot of losers around. On the plus side, with an attitude like that, your genes aren t likely to make it far. Plz dont have kids. Women like yourself will produce confused hapas with identity issues. Give Chloe a chance to go Black and redeem herself. If she goes Black she should have lots of Black babies. You can expand the double helixes of heredity by going Black. It s the latest positive trend among all women. If you re single, give it a try.
If you re married, give it a try. You won t want to go back.