Passionate Living Coach Abiola Abrams gives love, dating and self-esteem advice on the CW's Bill Cunningham Show and all over the web through her hit web series. Now she wants to help you keep things spicy and fresh between the sheets. Are you in need of an intimacy intervention? Just ask Abiola! Dear Abiola, I met a man that is so awesome to me. We have such amazing chemistry and I do not want that to ever go away. Let me just say, the sex is good and has always been fun. We talk and laugh during sex which I think helps me get in the grove a lot better.
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Even though I have some serious insecurity issues due to my physique, he makes me feel special in moments of intimacy that allows me to be open. Problem? I am plus size and he is average (both is height and in manhood ). He can handle me pretty well given our height differences but when we are intimate we typically stick to just missionary. However, I want to try something else to spice up our love life.
He is totally OK with being on top but I fear that one day, he will get bored of our love life and want something more. We've tried a few new positions but due to my size in weight, it was rather difficult. What are some positions or intimate moments you can suggest for women who are a bit larger that allows us both to enjoy sex? Subscribe to our for the latest in hair, beauty, style and celebrity news. First of all, my dearest queen I applaud you for taking control of your love life.
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It sounds like your man agrees with me that you are gorgeous and fully deserving of love, affection and pleasure. Be willing to let go of those old insecurity issues. Your worth is not attached to your body size or even the fact that you have the loving and attentive man you deserve. You were born worthy. I want you to look in your own eyes every time you pass a mirror and tell you, your best friend:
“I was born worthy. I am enough. I love being me. ” Before we get into the positions, you want to make sure that every sense is engaged in your private time. Men are visual and your man clearly likes what he sees.
Your beautiful energy shines forth so I wanted to do something special for you. I consulted with lingerie expert Cora Harrington to find out her picks for plus-size women. Bigger and Beautiful Position Roundup. A) Sitting up on the kitchen counter will give you great balance and control. Then your man can enter you from the front.
If he needs access assistance, there is nothing wrong with him standing on a small stool or something else. You’re then able to have fun with no concerns about him or you holding up your weight.