Hesse Kassel is an Australian economist. He stopped chasing money and chased women and made children instead. He blogs rightMuslims account for over twenty percent of the population of the world and more than that fraction of prime-aged girls. For religious and cultural reasons these girls tend to be quite inaccessible to outsiders and often have their romantic and sexual choices restricted or simply made on their behalf. A high proportion of Muslim girls, families, and communities take religious and cultural practices and rules seriously. These practices include an outright ban on romantic and sexual contact with non-Muslim men. That makes them a difficult, but not impossible challenge for an outsider. The journey to success with a Muslim girl is often challenging but can be a rewarding one.
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This article attempts to offer some guidance on what a man should expect on this journey. All points are generalizations only, based on the personal experiences of the author, who is not a Muslim. As with any other religious group there is a high level of variation between individuals within that group. These points should only be seen as tendencies to look out for and warnings of what to be prepared for, not as certainties. Associating with non-Muslim men or being seen to encourage the prospect is a much riskier proposition for a Muslim girl. Consequently, Muslim girls will give more subdued signals and will wait for greater certainty before clearly demonstrating interest. If a girl with a headscarf shows the slightest sign of interest then she is very interested. If she allows herself to be isolated or consents to any kind of public display then sex is a virtual certainty. Remember that to her what others see and think is everything so privacy, secrecy and subtlety are gold. Sex roles are distinct both in the sense of being clearly different and being defined in a distinctive way. For example, if she has a vehicle and the man doesn t she will often expect him to drive, even on a first meeting or date. Another common theme is to get a direct question such as If I wanted to leave would you let me? This question is a strange kind of shit test. It s not an answer that comes naturally for a western guy, but the expected response is something like No, you can t leave. Showing strength and alpha characteristics is still vital, but at least a nod to beta provider game is indispensable in this demographic. There is no easy way around this one. Expect deadly serious physical threats from her and from those close to her if they know or suspect the situation. In my experience these threats are always just hot air. On the other hand, everyone has heard about situations where they turned out to be all too serious. Threats by themselves do not indicate any personal ill will.
Just think of them as negotiating tactics. As with all threats it is critical to maintain a steady, untroubled manner. Make a clear decision to dismiss the threat, back down fully or leave then own that choice fully. Visible fear or vacillation is like waving a red rag at a bull. Choose as safe a medium and environment for such conversations as possible. Acknowledging understanding and requesting time to think, decide or learn can be a useful tactic for escaping a situation that seems imminently dicey. Muslim girls will feel shame at the thought of others knowing about her forbidden love, but not personal guilt. Consequently her focus will not be on reluctance to do but on reluctance to be seen to do. She will probably attempt to hide any contacts from her family and peers. If she is not a virgin she will likely claim to have only one previous partner who raped or coerced her. Interactions are sometimes carefully managed to imply her boyfriend is her husband without telling a direct lie. A Muslim girl will usually have marriage in mind as an endgame from an early stage. The rules of the religion do not allow any marriage unless the man agrees to convert to Islam. Therefore she will also have that in mind from an early stage. Her family will hope to resolve the situation in one of two ways by either getting rid of the man or forcing marriage with conversion. This is one of the topics which can be expected to trigger physical threats. Conversion means agreeing to a set of odious religious rules covering every aspect of life down to the smallest detail. Obviously it is not something that can be sincerely agreed to or insincerely agreed to while remaining a man of strength, character, and value. Islamic religious rules mandate that a girl give her husband sex at any time or in any manner he chooses. For girls circumcision is common in some areas but covers a wide range of practices, from minor to absolutely brutal.
The minor kind will not change the practice of sex much, but does seem to make losing virginity a more painful and bloody experience. I have no firsthand experience of the more severe practices. Circumcision is mandatory for men in Islam. Girls will not have a problem with a man who is not. Expect as much pressure to comply with religious rules for living as she feels she can get away with. This pressure will take the form of outright appeals to religion, but also of seemingly unrelated lobbying and rationalizations. Even the least religious Muslim girls will shun pork and probably alcohol. Any influence she might have will be used to avoid them and not just for her. For eating out she will go to great lengths to choose the most compliant eating establishment. , failing that serving only halal food, failing that not serving pork. In theory every Muslim prays five times a day. Compliance will probably be patchy though. The process involves washing in a mandated style, then putting on a prayer costume, then doing the prayer itself on a prayer mat. Annoyingly the first prayer is at five in the morning. By default no consideration, such as going into another room, will be shown so expect to be woken up. During the month of Ramadan many girls will fast during daylight hours. Muslims will usually try to claim that others can t eat because it is somehow rude and unfair on those who are fasting. This month features more compliance with prayer schedules and her cooking breakfast before dawn too. In theory it also means no sex during daylight hours, but in practice girls will if it comes up. In Western communities contraception and to a lesser extent abortion are routine parts of life.
Not so in this case. Do not expect her to be using contraceptives or to push for their use. In the event of pregnancy she is unlikely to want an abortion and her family will definitely not agree to an abortion. If Western women are not satisfying your needs or meeting your standards, it may be worth giving a Muslim woman a chance. Muslim women often are able to provide what Western women lack. Honestly, if I wanted a highly religious girl, I d go after a schwarzentrubber (old order) Amish chick. I can deal with old school Christianity a hell of a lot better than an alien religion, and if I am going to convert to something it sure as hell will not be Islam. The Armenian Apostolic Church welcomes you with open arms, right after a credit check, a $555 donation, and after you pay homage to our Catholicos (Pope Equivalent ). Being Amish would be kind of cool, if you are old order. They keep their shit together, their women not only in line, but happy, and they seem to be genuinely content. Building things with my hands, farming, etc. All appeal to me as well. I lived in the Ohio/Indiana area and I always admired them for upholding ACTUAL family values. The make great cheese, furniture, are resourceful, and pass down the German language. Indeed. I actually live in Ohio, where there is a ton of old order still remaining. Off topic, but made me smile. My grandfather used to call the Amish the Pennsylvania Jews He did this un-ironically and without malice or racism which made it even funnierPacifist societies generally avoid such things. Do not use Hollywood to set your view of the Amish. Hollyweird Propaganda tells us how extremist these Amish people are but cutting off your ding dong, becoming a female, and lying to future mates about your previous sex is an acceptable form of expression.
Hey man. I don t think any one of us could survive those frowns the Amish are capable of. Good for you! Go after your Amish girl, because you think Aliens exists. Your childish sophistry lost it s entertainment value yesterday. Find someplace else to troll. Convert to Islam and that s rather beta to sell out just to get married like that and her hamster wiring means you are a chump and you will be taken down a notch and resented. Simply refuse and tell her to convert (away) from Islam, that it s Do it MY way so that one of us will be happy, could get her tingles up even more and keep her hamster in check (and you won t be dealing with in-laws either if you manage to escape). By the way we can say what we want about the head scarfs and burkas but I ve known fellows from the M. E. Who would say that keeping the sun off does a whole lot to preserve them. You d be surprised what s under there (try before you buy though or you might end up becoming a new meme). Muslim men can have up to 9 wives if they live in an Islamic state. Game her, convert, move away, she s now locked in. Then game another, marry and another locked in. But heck if more than one wife is the goal might as well become Mormon. Probably. I don t follow a religion. I find it ridiculous that people need to have right and wrong written down for them. These are the toughest kind of girls to game not because they re feminists but because they are Muslim.
And Muslims want their daughters to only marry Muslims. Exactly. But when you have no standards except getting women this is what you should expectNo woman is worth converting to any religion for.