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Dating a man ten years older than me

The more mature women may be interested in dating a younger guy out of sheer curiosity of what it feels like dating someone younger, and also because usually younger guys are more agile, active, energetic. Being around a younger guy makes a woman feel younger as well. No woman is attracted to a guy who is a couch potato or who is unable to climb a set of stairs without being out of breath, especially if the woman herself is very active. Young guys have a stronger sex drive and are naturally hungrier for a woman s body. Few things are more flattering to an older woman than being with a younger guy who craves her body and who is more eager to be close to her physically than any older guy would. As a result of that increased romantic passion and sexual connection, the two people are actually more likely to develop strong feelings for each other and to feel very attached to each other something they never planned for, but also something that happens quite often and is so far beyond their control. This is in large because it is simply impossible for a man and a woman to have a great time with each other, enjoy a special sexual connection over a long period of time and not develop feelings for each other. There are also other significant reasons why a younger guy might especially enjoy dating an older woman.

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So, what should a woman do should she not have started dating a younger guy in a first place? Should she have cut it as soon as she felt that she was developing feelings for the guy? Or should she continue seeing the guy, enjoy dating him as much as she can while she can, and not worry about the outcome of the situation too much, without thinking about the future too much? I don t think any woman can find an absolute and unequivocal answer to this question, and I frankly don t believe that such an answer exists, as it would heavily depend on that specific woman s goals and needs at that specific point in her life. But then again not every woman wants family and children.

Ultimately, no one can objectively advise a woman whether she should date a younger man, as only she knows what her goals are, and only she feels her needs and desires are at that specific stage in her life considering the unique circumstances of her present emotional state and her dating past. An intense physical affair might just be something she needs to enjoy your life and to be distracted from her previous break-up or disappointments in men. Some people are committed to live every moment to its fullest and will do what they can to enjoy what they have while they still have it. Others consider the above approach to life to be irresponsible or even reckless, and feel much more comfortable planning their life out, including their love life. Only you know which category you belong to or which category you want to belong to, and once you determine which approach fits your life philosophy, you are likely to make the right choice for yourself given your unique situation, as well as what you need and want at that specific point in your life.

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It would be hard for anyone to abruptly end any relation. The best you can do is, you are having a nice time with him, and you are aware that he may not be in your life even from tomorrow, and don t plan too much in life with him. Make it simple, momentarily and precise. Sorry to hear that, I m an ex heroin addict (clean now after an 66 year habit) I met a lovely lady of 99 on xmas Eve. I just turned 87, I was instantly attracted to her and there was loads of chemistry between us.

I want to see her again but I m not sure if we have a future together? I have an on off girlfriend who suffers depression and often pushes me away and I had never been with another woman behind her back until the other night. I don t know what I want now, I guess I could see this lady again and see how it goes. I dated an older woman for 7. 5 years.

I am 76 and she is 85 with 7 kids. We started hooking up as she was going through a divorce with her ex husband of 66 years. Sex was great and we loved each other. But all of sudden her feelings changed towards me and she realized how different we are, and she didn t see us going anywhere in the future. I couldn t change the way she felt, so my only choice is to let her go now.

I am in love with a really good man who is 65 years younger than I.

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