The more distant I act, the more he s interested! I want to be more coupley with him, but the more I do that the more he backs off, and the more I back off the more he comes to me. How do I gradually get closer and more coupley without scaring him off? What I mean is that I like them right where they are I know she s not interested in hooking up with other guys, we see each other regularly enough (one a week or so) and when we re together it s nice, but there s no feeling of exclusivity or dependency. Problem is, try as I might, it doesn t last. The girl starts becoming attached to me, missing me and wanting to become more official. Then, inevitably, the girl starts to get upset, frustrated, confused, etc. And she starts backing away.
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At that point, I start thinking I ve gone too far. I ve pushed her away and now I m going to lose her. I m clear on this and it s practical for where I am in my life right now. My point in all of this is that if you withdraw, you will most likely get him to put in more effort, but that will only take you so far. Also, if you haven\'t already, you should definitely take our quiz to find out how into you your guy is.
I think you\'ll find it really helpful. Bottom line: Get clear on what you want. He will either step into that role or he won t. How long are you willing to wait before you cut bait and move on?
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6 month? 8 months? 6 months? Some guys need time and there s nothing wrong with giving a guy time. P.
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Take The Quiz Now The More Distant I Act, The More Interested He Becomes? Well, I think it may be true as long as someone doesn t overdo it. I guess, if someone acts as a cold fish, it s not good either. I ve doing talking to a guy for a while now. He told me that he likes me which is a good thing.
The only problem is he is my brother best friendIf women would stop having sex with these guys none of this would be happening.