If you’re a regular reader, you probably knew that I was on the CBS Early Show in July. Appearing with me was one of my all-time favorite clients, Tom Pandolfo. Charming, charismatic, successful, warm, athletic… Tom has it all. The only thing missing in his life is a woman. So, after hiring me as his dating coach, we set to work in rebranding him on Match. Com. We took new professional photos. We had Tom fill out my and submit to an hour of questions from me on the phone.Speed Dating No Luck
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We wrote two new profile essays that were unique, funny and confident. We renamed him “LookMaNoHair. Height is irrelevant to anything that makes a man a good husband or father. To see if the women would go for short guys who were successful, ABCNEWS Lynn Sherr created extraordinary résumés for the shorter men. She told the women that the shorter men included a doctor, a best-selling author, a champion skier, a venture capitalist who d made millions by the age of 75. Nothing worked. The women always chose the tall men. Sherr asked whether there d be anything she could say that would make the shortest of the men, who was 5 feet, irresistible. One of the women replied, Maybe the only thing you could say is that the other four are murderers. Another backed her up, saying that had the taller men had a criminal record she might have been swayed to choose a shorter man. Another said she d have considered th e shorter men, if the taller men had been described as child molesters. Lest you think this is an example of reality TV finding evidence to support a story, Tom tried his own experiment last week. Sure enough, few women give a fair shake to a man who is 5’8”, no matter what else he has going for him. So I tried changing my profile for three days just to see what the difference was between being 5’8 and 5’65”. I wanted to know if height was the only difference and the constant deal breaker. So I moved my profile from Pittsburgh and posted it for 8 days in a town where nobody knew me (Philadelphia). Here’s what I found: Life – and people – can be incredibly unfair. We. People want what they want. They’re attracted to what they’re attracted to. And no amount of complaining is going to change it. Oh, and I am one. 65 unsolicited contacts in three days?
Come on. That’s pretty damn good! Okay, I m kidding about the last part, but only because I m so serious about the rest of this. Really, it kills me. Believe me, Tom is no “woe-is-me” kind of guy. He’s just been confronted with a very ugly reality that has shaken his confidence in people. And even though we had good initial results, the fact remains, empirically: women don’t want short men. And although you can feel free to substitute, I honestly feel that nobody gets a rawer deal than short guys. Honestly, ladies You can get your own dishes from the top shelf. You don t really need to feel protected from the dangers of suburbia. So how about it, women? Is there any legitimate reason not to go out with this amazing, amazing man? Honestly? It s because I like to feel small next to a guy. I ve been insecure about my weight my whole life. A tall, broad man does wonders for making me feel dainty next to him. Why do need to feel small next to a guy and feel dainty? I feel like I ve been transported to the 6955s. You make no sense. Today s women are so weak and pathetic. Hey, that s not fair. It s rude to call her sad and pathetic. That is just her preference as many people have.
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Same way some men are absolutely not attracted to fat women or skinny women. Could it be also that the women HE WANTS simply do NOT WANT him? I m beginning to think the problem isn t short, fat, bald, skinny, big noses, little noses, crossed eyes or what have you. I think the rudeness that abounds between men and women might be a bigger barrier than anything. Refusing to date a short guy isn t a preference. It s a deal breaker. I have a preference for brunettes but I d still date a blonde. Too many women use preference to try and not sound like shallow bitches. If you refuse to date someone based on one thing that s completely outside of their control, that has nothing to do with preference. Refusing to date a guy SOLELY because he is short is shallow by definition. Having a preference for taller guys is one thing flat out refusing to date a guy who s short is completely another. Okay, we can all want what we want. But it is typically women who consider that they often settle for a lesser men. Men don t settle, they don t think that way. You women are degrading in many ways. Men when they decide on a women, don t typically think they could have gotten someone higher on their list. After all that a man can do for a women, to have her consider him a lesser man do to height is very insulting. We are all entitled to our preferences, but some preferences can make us look sad and pathetic. Speaking as a short male, standing a shameful 5 7 I agree that lady anonymous is sad and pathetic. For women, height isn t a preference. A TALL guy *still* has to be handsome enough, fit enough, have clear skin, be hairless, have great hair or look great bald, be well hung on and on. And that s *before* personality and wealth. Men look at a woman and she is either hot to them or not. And guess what?
To 85% of guys 95% of women are hot Women find 85% of men unattractive. That s statistically proven. You have a LAUNDRY list of things you MUST have and *anything* less is settling And TOP of that list is a *requirement* that *85% of men cant meet*! ! Women would rather stand in line with 75 of their girlfriends for the 6 7 guy, then wonder why after having women throw themselves at him for 75 years he s entitled, than settle for a short guy. No different than being rude and pathetic by virtue of the same standards when men don t want heavy women. Guess we don t want to feel small next to our women: )dont compare a guys attraction to women who aren t fat to women s attraction to only tall guys. A woman can gain and lose weight. It us often a direct reflection if whether she takes care of herself. A guy has no control over his height. If this is the way you speak to and about women, I believe your height has very little to do with your inability to find a partner. I have known many short guys who never had issues with dating ~ they had personalities that outmeasures their short statures. I bet you don t go out on dates with any of these amazing shorter guys Ironic, tall guys can speak anyway they want does not stop them from getting women. Nice try though I am a 5 5 female, and sure, I too find a man towering over me extremely attractive. But I am also so short that it does not matter if a guy is 5 8 or 6 8! No girl wants to be taller than her guy, but no self respecting guy wants to have to look up when he talks to his girl! If she doesn t like you for you then she is not worth it. I promise you, Short Girl Nation is not as small as you would think. I am sure if you look hard enough you can find the girl that will complement your height perfectly! I completely agree. I have only met a handful of (short) men who are secure in themselves, are incredible charming and intelligent and THAT is what makes them attractive! However, many (short) men have internalized a negative self-image which has made them impossible to even speak to because they are so blantantly insecure. Online dating is tough when it comes to any physical drawback for any person because that is the only basis on which people are being judged.
If you re intelligent, charming and most importantly, secure in yourself, the world is replete with women who wouldn t give a damn about a physical drawback if they were to meet you in person not online. Interesting, that while he complains about women not wanting him for being short, he makes a clear preference for PETITE women. So really, pot calling the kettle blackI guess you are right, it looks dumb. I m 5 5 an my nice fat thing would really look ridiculous compared to my short height, an your tall stature. Not wanting to date a heavy girl is nothing like not wanting to date a short guy. Heavier people can go to the gym, diet, and in the most extreme cases, surgery. Short men have no such options. Women these days are not weak and pathetic as you say. Not all women want to feel small and dainty next to a man, but they also don t want to feel like a giant compared to one as well. Something feels off being with a short man. No body wants to pick up their boyfriend to set em at the dinner table. The truth is that short men are inferior in terms of physical attraction, intelligence, strength, etc. But with these days being concerned about hurting others feelings, no one wants to admit the truth. Don t blame him for feeling this way about women. Rejection after rejection can make you lose any sense of acceptance of yourself and can cause you to try to find who is responsible for it, and it s more hopeful to blame weak and pathetic bitches than to admit your place in nature. You wouldn t have to pick me up, but I think my 7 could give you a lift. Hee, hee. Unless you re dating a dwarf, you re not going to have to pick up your man to sit him at the table. But as you said, women like to feel dainty. I think that has to do with their self-esteem and self-image. I m not putting blame on them for having these sort of complexes because society bombards us with these norms but don t you think that constant rejection from women for being short would do damage to a short man? It s a two-way street. Women can t be shallow when they re just as insecure Beggars can t be choosers. I just reread your post, and noticed you said not all woman want to feel dainty but the studies mentioned in this article clearly show that MOSTLY all women prefer taller men.
Basically women are just confused because all they do is just feel things. Their emotions f-up their thought processes. I am 5 7 and my girlfriend is 5 5.