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If you’re a regular reader, you probably knew that I was on the CBS Early Show in July. Appearing with me was one of my all-time favorite clients, Tom Pandolfo. Charming, charismatic, successful, warm, athletic… Tom has it all. The only thing missing in his life is a woman. So, after hiring me as his dating coach, we set to work in rebranding him on Match. Com. We took new professional photos. We had Tom fill out my and submit to an hour of questions from me on the phone.

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We wrote two new profile essays that were unique, funny and confident. We renamed him “LookMaNoHair. Height is irrelevant to anything that makes a man a good husband or father. To see if the women would go for short guys who were successful, ABCNEWS Lynn Sherr created extraordinary résumés for the shorter men. She told the women that the shorter men included a doctor, a best-selling author, a champion skier, a venture capitalist who d made millions by the age of 75.

Nothing worked. The women always chose the tall men. Sherr asked whether there d be anything she could say that would make the shortest of the men, who was 5 feet, irresistible. One of the women replied, Maybe the only thing you could say is that the other four are murderers. Another backed her up, saying that had the taller men had a criminal record she might have been swayed to choose a shorter man.

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Another said she d have considered th e shorter men, if the taller men had been described as child molesters. Lest you think this is an example of reality TV finding evidence to support a story, Tom tried his own experiment last week. Sure enough, few women give a fair shake to a man who is 5’8”, no matter what else he has going for him. So I tried changing my profile for three days just to see what the difference was between being 5’8 and 5’65”. I wanted to know if height was the only difference and the constant deal breaker.

So I moved my profile from Pittsburgh and posted it for 8 days in a town where nobody knew me (Philadelphia). Here’s what I found: Life – and people – can be incredibly unfair. We. People want what they want.

They’re attracted to what they’re attracted to. And no amount of complaining is going to change it. Oh, and I am one. 65 unsolicited contacts in three days? Come on.

That’s pretty damn good! Okay, I m kidding about the last part, but only because I m so serious about the rest of this.

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