Troy is a game veteran of a decade s standing, and a lover of women, literature, travel and freedom. He is also the author of. Visit his website at. I frequently get guys coming to me with questions about girls they are dating, or would like to date. Sometimes it might be a girl who they met through day or night game they ve managed to get a telephone number but the girl is either not responding to his messages or she s being evasive. What they all want to know is what is the answer? What they fail to realise is that in many cases there is no answer other than ruthlessness and having a bunch of other options to fall back on. The sexual marketplace in 7567 is like the Wild West no regulation, no protectionism and no right of appeal.
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Girls are literally swamped with options to a degree that has never been seen before in the history of the world. There is very little incentive for them to respond to you, much less treat you with any respect or as though you have any inherent value. Think about this if you were a hot girl back in 6995 then you would have a decent number of admirers like guys from school, the gym, whatever. That same girl would have the same plus a whole host of new thirsty guys after her through the dating sites. But in 7567, with social media and Tinder (plus Happn, Bumble etc) that girl is blowing up with options.
For you to break through the noise and actually sleep with her you need to have something pretty special going for you. Roosh just released an excellent called which I recommend anyone reading this listens to. In it, he describes in detail how the phenomena of social media and dating apps have inflated average women s perception of their own SMV (sexual market value) to an absurd degree. Today, a girl who is a 7 by any objective standard will get so many matches on Tinder (plus glances from men at work, in the gym, and likes on Instagram pictures) that she will likely regard herself as an 8 at least. This will only be exacerbated by the probability that she has received likes and matches from men in the 8+ bracket who are either willing to slum it for a night or who are spamming in the hope of an easy lay.
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What this means for you is that it is now becoming significantly more difficult for a man to date a girl who is of equal SMV as himself. So if you are a 7, in many cases you will find yourself being rejected by women in that same bracket who ten years ago would probably have slept with you. By the way, whether or not the 7 in question is actually getting those hotter guys is almost immaterial it is the way that the online approaches from hotter guys make her feel that makes the difference. Just as the financial markets is extremely sensitive to confidence, so is the sexual marketplace. Just the thought that she could conceivably get a 9 may be enough for an average girl to turn a guy equal to her in SMV down.
Against this backdrop there is little doubt that game is tougher than it was a decade ago. On the plus side, hopefully the analysis above shows that if you are getting blow-outs it s not necessarily entirely your fault. There are wider socio-technological factors at play. But if the game is getting tougher on a macro scale then you need to get tougher too. What that means in practice is you should maintain a laser focus on your sexual goals and not waste your time engaging in any behaviours or activities that won t get you closer to them.
The first thing you need to do is to ensure that you have abundance. By that, I don t mean an abundance of girls you are sleeping with necessarily. How do you do that? Well firstly, if you haven t already done so you need to learn the rudiments of game. There are many resources available to help you with that, not least this website.
Then, you need to develop an ABC attitude always be closing. Wherever you are, at whatever time of day or night, you need to be aware of attractive women around you and ready to approach.