He loves me … he loves me not … if only finding the answer were as simple as plucking petals off a flower. So what makes it so hard to determine if a man truly loves you? A lot of us have ideas about what, what it should look like, and how it should feel. A lot of the time these ideas are plain wrong (we can thank romantic comedies for that). Because of that, some of us might not recognize the real thing when it comes our way. Maybe it’s because of these grand visions of love that have been implanted in our minds, but it could also be the result of being burned too many times in the past and having walls up when it comes to either giving love or being able to receive it. The point is, love is a tricky thing. A guy can say he loves you and not truly mean it, and a guy can but not be ready to say it.
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Love, as beautiful as it is, can also be scary, and a lot of us keep our guard up until we’re sure he feels a certain way in order to keep from getting hurt. As the saying goes, before you fall in love, make sure there is someone there to catch you. Instead of connecting, you are stuck in your own worried thoughts, and those thoughts produce fears and insecurities that ultimately block you from getting the love you want. So how do you know if a man is truly in love with you? If he shows these 66 signs, then it’s pretty safe to say he is.
He looks at you like you re a unicorn, like he can t believe you exist. He may even come right out and tell you, I can t believe someone like you exists. It isn t a look of lust and desire. Instead, it s marked by a certain awe, serenity, and inner calm. It s a look reserved only for you.
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It’s not only the way he looks at you it’s the frequency. He can’t stop looking at you whether you’re together or across the room from each other, his gaze will always be oriented toward you. Real love is about giving, not taking. This is why parents typically love their children more than their children love them. You would think it would be the opposite.
From birth through our teenage years (and sometimes beyond! ) kids take and parents give. Every parent will tell you that you never know real love until you have a child, and that s because this kind of love is all about giving. When you love someone, you want to give that person everything you have. This isn t about material possessions.
You want to give by being the best you can, you want to make them happy, to enhance their life, you want to do things for them that will make them happy. Love isn’t merely a feeling it’s a verb and it comes across in actions. The biggest action that indicates a man loves you is when he gives you all he can. Everyone is busy we all have work or school or other commitments. When a man loves you, he will make spending time with you a priority.
And if he really doesn t have time, he ll make sure to let you know when he will. When a man loves you, you re the most important person in his life and he makes sure to carve out a place in it for you.