6. When you make the initial contact if it is just for casual sex that you are interested in please be upfront about it to save time on both sides. If you are straight forward it allows both of you to begin with the same expectations of sex. If not it s a waste of both of your time. 7. To introduce yourself. Texting is fine, I m not against it, but when it comes to dating and meeting in the beginning, don t text everything to arrange dating. It s a real turnoff.
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Offer to call her on the phone. 8. If the woman offers to call you first, know that she is not afraid of making the first move and doesn t conform to the traditional old ways. Also, for safety sake, many women prefer making the first call. 9.
Don t tell her you look good for your age. Yuck. That s the last thing she wants to hear. Tell her she looks great! .
Period. 5. If it s you are seeking, know that many older woman come out way ahead in this area. They have nothing to lose by being and showing who they genuinely are. If in any way you meet and you see that she s got the plastic surgery going on, has lied about her age, then you know where you are at with her.
And ask yourself if you want to be with someone who has totally misrepresented herself. The older woman is used to dating. She was brought up that way. She is used to being treated well. Pay for her on the first date, even if she offers to pay her share.
You just seem really cool when you do that. Communicate with her especially on the first date. Don t make it an interrogation. It s uncomfortable for both, and there s no way of having any kind of fun or spontaneous conversation. If she feels you are totally into learning about her that is a real turn on, especially if you have a sense of humor.
Don t mispresent yourself to her. If the picture you have online is what she will see in person, don t come walking in looking nothing like your photo, either being fifty pounds heavier, the photo was taken when you were twenty years younger.