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You know it s hard out here for a pimp. It s even harder for those trying to avoid getting pimped. As much attention as men get for the games many play we forget something that s very true. Many women are the masters of the game and have been running circles around men since the beginning of time. Men don t tend to be as intuitive as women so they can t even see the pimp hand coming before it s too late. So here are some signs to consider when trying to avoid falling victim to a female player: Plenty of women have a lot of male friends simply because they feel men are easier to deal with. So that in itself isn t necessarily a sign.

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The problem is when you notice these various friends always doing things for this woman. It s possible she is in pimp mode and taking advantage of their interest in her. You may express your concern but she will simply shoot it down and make you seem like you are being unreasonable. She isn t interested in addressing the issue because to her there is no issue. The ability to stroke a man s ego can be an art for some women and they enjoy using this powerful tool. So her desire to constantly flirt is something you may want to keep your eye on. Some will even flirt right in front of your face and then make it seem like you re just being crazy when you take issue with it. A woman who is truly into you isn t likely willing to be flirting with every other guy. Yes some people enjoy flirting but be mindful when there may be more to it than that. A female player has no problem asking for what she wants. She may take a smooth indirect approach or a very direct one. Either way and you will have to decide if you are willing to give her what she wants. If you choose not to she is likely to get very upset with you. This may be done in a loud and harsh manner or she may use the silent but still strong approach. She will have you feeling that giving in to her demands is the only way you can expect to keep her around. She may not even be your girlfriend yet but she knows how to play on your desires to get her and she will use all of this to her advantage. When she decides she is going to be a female player she already perceives emotional attachment as her enemy and wants no part of it. That s why an emotionally detached woman who is dating may be a red flag. She dates to get the benefits she is looking for but she isn t interested in the emotional risks that come with truly trying to be with anybody right now. Dealing with just one man consistently. She is the woman capable of having sex with you and not requiring any cuddle time afterward. When a woman is a female player she is not with you for your benefit. She entertains you for her benefit and at her convenience. If she gave you more than she received then that would defeat the whole purpose of keeping you around. So her goal is to milk you for whatever she deems appropriate.

Now a really smart female player may still do things for you here and there but don t be fooled. She might buy you lunch but you will be buying her groceries. She might get you something nice for your car but she may have you paying her car note. One way or another she is going to make sure she is getting the much better end of the deal. I hope this helps some of the men wondering what to look for when trying to avoid the female player. Don t be so quick to let her beauty blind you and be willing to take a deep look at who she really is as a woman. If any of these signs come up always be willing to properly address them and talk to her about it. Sometimes it may not be that she is trying to play you but you will get a clearer picture after you properly express your concerns. If you do happen to fall victim to one don t hold on to bitterness and negativity. Just because one woman hurt you doesn t mean you have to turn around and take it out on every other woman after her. Stuff happens and you just have to learn from it, grow, and focus on being the best man you can be. Quick Question Stephan: if you have 8 of the 5 signs then what are you? A smart woman who is dating or still a female player? LOL I am just asking. Only you as an individual can answer that. If a man gets taken advantage of by a woman, he looks less than a man. Then the real issue is yourself. It s very easy to blame others on your problems. But I would consider therapy. Preferably someone who specialises in Childhood Trauma. If she was your girlfriend then how does she qualify as a player? See what I mean? You know it’s hard out here for a pimp. Wow what an amazing thing to say, you sir are a living breathing modern day Ghandi.

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Honestly you make this too easy When she decides she is going to be a female player she already perceives emotional attachment as her enemy and wants no part of it. It s kind of what I thought. Men WANT us hurting. They WANT us vulnerable, so you can hurt us if you FEEL like it. Women always want sex and they don t want any emotional attachment to the man. They want to take advantage of him and destroy his manhood. I think the problem is that many men AND women go for the player type. There is more confidence, which is attractive to both sexes, probably because of the feeling that they don t have anything to lose because they are not emotionally invested and will just find someone new. Someone who is emotionally invested is probably going to be more subdued after being hurt, less confident, and appear more needy, which are traits not so appealing. But Stephan, THESE are exactly the type of games the women that get the men play! It s almost as if men won t respond to being direct and honest. They LIKE these games. I ve seen this in SO many friends. They get the man s attention but how long do they truly keep it. Are they finding genuine love through this approach or just men who may be intrigued and caught up in the chase? I agree with you stephan. She claimed to have feelings for me and would stop but it was too late. Spot on. People who play games in dating end up losing. You might get what you want in the short-term. But in the long-term, you eventually end up alone and unhappy. The writer of this article is a sexist son of a bitch. We women have the right to dominate and conquer men. You also have the right to learn to read. The author didn t say anything about not being able to dominate he was pointing out a fact.

Try conquering a book, you stupid ass. Feminist garbage. You always want what you can t have. Once men realize this, and stop giving women what they want so easily Then you can be free as a man. They want to save a ho or they want someone to hang out and watch sports with them like the woman is their boy or they run from intimacy. Now if we act distant we are users? I m confused because I have male friends, I expect a man to be a gentleman and yes pay for dinner if he asks me out but also I do things for him. . They want what they can t have and have what they don t want and complain about it. Instead of games why not just speak openly honestly that way we women don t waste our time on them. Some of us are LADIES, right! This is pointing out in a GENERAL manner most people don t know how to READ between the lines so now us ladies are clumped in with player/gold digger are those he same? UGH no wonder I m on hiatus. I agree with you! I don t feel bad for any players who hurt innocent people. I, myself, only hurt other players. It feels good knowing I got to them. 😀All of these so-called red flags are the very things that attract men and often make them fall in love, they aren t red flags. Men like you will say you don t like these things but it s untrue. It s happened to me all my life until I began doing a lot of what this article says not to do. Which increases attraction because men are drawn to women who are high on demand for other male attention. They see they have to invest in her to win her over. They ignore the women who are too easy with few male options and laser focused on him immediately. Men don t connect with a woman who doesn t flirt and acts all aloof and standoffish, he ll see her as a friend and sometimes friend with benefits if he think she s pretty. So what s wrong being flirtatious?

This is the type of comment that made me shut off my flirtatious and feminine side for years, people like you saying it s wrong. She Gets Very Upset When You Don’t Give Her What She Wants Because if she acts like she doesn t care, he learns it s ok to ignore her needs and walks all over herBecause in order to protect her heart, she doesn t want to invest feelings until a man commits. Being too giving to a man or giving more than he invests ALWAYS drives him away. Men who give advice like this are hilarious. The very things they say they don t want in the woman are the things that attract them. Lol I wouldn t feel surprised if you re one of those guys who says women should chase men. Women don t connect with men and women act aloof and standoffish also women like men who are easy with fewer female options. No, actually you don t. You don t want a guy you can control. And any man who gives a woman too much control over himself is not a man. And it isn t attractive to a good woman anyway. Because in order to protect her heart, she doesn t want to invest feelings until a man commits. Most players aren t looking for commitment. It s never about the other person. It s about us. A true player is narcissistic. What you re describing is someone who s been hurt, who doesn t want to be hurt again. So you control your feelings to protect yourself. I get it. But players like myself, don t feel nada. Cause it s about us If a narcissistic player doesn t get their way, then they may fake attachment in order to get their way. It is right. You have to becareful about screening people. And learn to play their games back and forth. Don t invest emotionally until your certain.

Don t put the ring on the finger until your really really sure.

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