Your Wife Cheated Here s a Common But Deadly Mistake To Avoid Everything you thought you knew about your wife, marriage hell, about LIFE itself it s all up in the air. It s the most F*CKED UP you ve ever been in your entire life pardon my french. When I found out my wife betrayed me for another guy man, did I suffer. And man did I make some BIG TIME mistakes And looking back, I think I have some perspective that I can share with you that ll help you avoid the common mistakes guys make when they find out they have a. Hell, how could we not be screwed up on the inside when going through this? The problem comes when we start making DECISIONS during this time when we re all screwed up. It s easy to get sucked into seeing the world through the emotionally-charged lens we wear when you find out your wife cheated. To figure out how to deal with a cheating wife, we need to practice stepping back for a second, realize we may not be thinking straight, and commit ourselves to not to make any big decisions until our feelings start to even out.
When you do, you ll avoid turning your wife s affair into an event that causes your entire life to go into a tailspin (which is what happens to too many guys). Instead, you ll make decisions when you re back on solid ground in your inner world So right now, take 65 seconds and say to yourself, I might be emotionally jacked up right now, so I commit to myself to do the thing a mature man would do and not make any big decisions for now. Listen, I put up this blog to help guys like us who are going through infidelity in our marriages. So let me know you read this hell, I DARE you and comment below. Then go grab yourself a free copy of my free report The 7 Biggest Mistakes Men Make When Wives Cheat. I just wanted to thank you for putting that on the internet. I feel better and I know I have a roller coaster ride though hell. I know I will be stronger once I pass hell and turn into a stronger person. Thank you again. You are a good man to help people after what you went through. Maybe one day I can help people like you have helped me. Bill, AustraliaHeard/saw your video. I can t think straight. I never saw it coming because I could NEVER do that to my wife. It is core for me, you don t betray your spouse. If you are unhappy, try to fix it. I can t stop picturing them together and she won t even fully admit the depth of the affair. She is so worried about what everyone else thinks. She is defiant or indifferent hell, which is worse. BTW, he was my best friend, they knew I could not see it. I want to be happy again, I can t see how to get there.
Anything you can do to help. Thanx, SHTYeah, as much as it sucks, people are most likely to cheat within their social circle meaning co-workers, family, and friends even BEST friends. Yes, you will be happy again. It feels like you won t, but you will. It will take time, and requires you not making stupid decisions right now that ll create longer-term bad consequences. There is no magic pill but don t believe the thoughts that are telling you you ll never be normal again. You will. In fact, you will be BETTER than normal eventually. I know you never thought in a million years it would happen to you, but the my wife cheated with my best friend thing has happened to THOUSANDS of men throughout the ages. You re not alone. Sign up for my free report if you haven t already it outlines the mistakes you need to avoid right now. She is still doing it. She thinks I m stupid. It s all on her twiter account which 7 days ago she said I never do tweets, and I look and she was there yesterday leading them in to more fun. Any advice, as this is just the second confirmed catch? Also, to insult my intelligence (she knows I m mensa level+), she thinks I cannot nail her twitter account. WEll PUT. . My wife has been cheating on me for a year now the whole time she tell me she isn t talking to the guy isn t seeing him and at least once every week i would see them sexting and read see text saying when and where to meet or leave to meet I supported her and her daughter since her daughter was 9 we got married and had a son and after the marriage she lost both her parents and placed blame on me for everything and then made me out to be the bad guy in everything CHEATING IS NEVER OK and its not your FAULT SHE CHEATED nothing you did made her cheat I TELL MYSELF THAT OVER AND OVER and it doesn t help but maybe time will WE ALL NEED TO STAY STRONG AND STOP BELIEVE OUR Lying wifes. They will never stopDanny I m sorry this happen to you man unfortunately i was there long time ago but I finely let it go, I wish I can tell you how I did it but only time will help, I don t know if my still doing it but I can tell you is not the same any more unfortunately this will end soon or later bad thing we have 5 kids together but she will not change HER BAD HABBITS EVEN IF SHE WAS BORN AGAIN. If she shows no remorse and she doesn t want to fix things, leave her ass.
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Don t stick around. You re only hurting yourself, not the other guy or your wife. That s just plain evil, man. The fact that she would toy with you like that. Leave her. Get separated. Let her fuck that other dude all she wants because she s a dirty whore and you don t want to fuck that. Trust me. That s fucked up, man. I ve been cheated on before, but my wife was honest about it and took measures to move past it. She didn t continue to do this bull shit. I don t know if it s her friends/relatives enabling her behavior or what, but get the fuck out. If my wife showed no remorse for what she did, I wouldn t stick around. I would know for certain that she didn t want to be with me. Just walk away. It s the healthy and right thing to do. My wife has cheated 8 times that I know about, how many more that I don t know about is what concerns me. The thing about my wife is that she loves to give HEAD and she has this insatiable appetite for cum. But listen guys I decided to leave it in God s hands. It states 77 times in the Bible that Lord does not take kindly to those that commit adultery. We can t punish them now, but when their time comes and they arrive at the gates of heaven, they will be denied access, forever.
Found out my wife cheated on me with 5 to 6 men over last 65 years how dum could i beMine two. I caught her three different times and she only will admit to one. But I have all the text. I decided to stay but know I am having second thoughts. My wife of 68 year has had an affair with two different men in the last year. She claims she is sick and has a monster inside of her but at this point I don t know what to believe. I left the when I first found out but she had to have surgery the next day and no one could drive her to the doctor and back but me. So now I a home taking care of my wife and 7 year old daughter and I am going out of my mind. I have friends that are supportive but right now that just doesn t seem to be enough. I just don t know how she could do this to us. My wife cheated on me 9 months ago and also sent pictures to guys online all summer. She also had a monster inside. However sick or not i still havent forgiven her even though shes back home. Shes on meds now. I still dont know what to do with my bitterness but bp disorder is something you should look intoMy wife was sneaking anti-depressants from my knowing. Problems go well beyond the bedroom. It s a no brainer to me that my wife cheated due to the fact that she is not happy. Am l wrong to believe that to experience real happiness one must be able to handle depresssion on their own? How can you have one without the other? It is very sad to see that so many people are over-medicated in our society today. It is no wonder to me why more marriages today fail than before the zoloft, prozac, ridilan, and other pharmaceutical, non-spiritual choices became brainwashed into so many feeble minds as the answer.
So many people do not look inward for the answer. We Americans are getting weaker and weaker. It s pointless for any one to get a denying, cheating wife to own up. If they did, they would lose face and have to look inward. Thus denial will continue, and maybe even a stronger dose of some pharmaceutical drug to shut that inner door tight. It s totally normally not to be able to get your mind around the fact that she did what she did. Accepting the fact of the affairs can take a long time, but it s a big step in your healing process. There s a part of us that doesn t want to accept it, I believe partly because we think it ll prevent us from the pain of acknowledging that yes, this thing we hate did happen. Some people call this denial. And it s totally normal. But getting to the point of accepting it will help you, and it won t kill you, even if it feels like it will. I want to acknowledge you for taking care of your wife right now despite what she did, and of course taking care of your daughter. And I know the stress can seem unbearable on the one hand you re devasted and angry at your wife, and on the other hand you re taking care of the the very woman who hurt and betrayed you. I m curious how much you ve talked about the affairs with your wife. It will help you if you make a list of the questions you have for her, and then pick 6 or 7 to answer every day or so. Some people call this the fishbowl technique. The fish bowl isn t necessary the point is to get your questions answered. It s liking pulling off a bandaid it s going to hurt like hell at first. By the way, your wife saying she has a monster inside of her sounds to me like she s ditching responsibility for what she did. She did it, not a monster. Does what you say, think, or feel about a wife having an affair go for a long term affair?
Because i feel like when i can move past this it s stuck in my head how long it went on. How I trusted her so much I was blind for not seeing the signs. I love her too much to lose her but just don t know how to move past this. Thank you for your response!