We're just like you. We connected through an online dating service--OK Cupid, to be exact. Our first date was at a fun Seattle tapas-and-sangria bar. We fell in love. We are engaged to be married. We know that you, too, can find love. Let us help you. We frequently get requests for help from Plenty of Fish and Match ( members for advice on making their more appealing.
The Best and Worst of Dating Profile Headlines Dare to be
Typically, the alarm bells start clanging as soon as we see their profile taglines: 95% of these taglines are either typical (overused and boring) or slightly needy. The Dating Gurus are at your service to explain just why a dating profile headline (also known as a tagline) is more important than you would first suspect. There are zillions of daters out there in dating-land vying for your attention, hoping that you will recognize that they, uniquely, can fill that magical place in your heart. Too bad most of them are blowing a great opportunity to grab your attention, and make you want to dig deeper.
But if we make it past the photo, skimming profiles, the first thing you'll notice is the profile tagline. This little ditty can compel us to read further, or it can cause us to roll our eyes and move on. The dating profile headline is a one-time lightning-quick opportunity to show a little flair, and highlight something about your personality or a special interest. The tagline can showcase your wit, a love of poetry, sense of humor, a romantic or philosophical nature, etc. It also can work to attract someone who has similar interests with one quick zap.
The 5 Types of Online Dating Headlines that Snag Attention
Some we created ourselves, and others we borrowed from dating headlines on the web. We perused hundreds of dating site profiles and headlines for red flags or dullsville, so you don’t have to. And believe us, you are grateful. There are more cringe-worthy headlines than we thought possible. Biggest offenders include those where the author’s lack of imagination or energy just scream out “I can’t be bothered”, or “I’m lame” which of course, all reveal clues about character, intelligence, or confidence.
If a person be bothered to think of a few interesting words strung together to represent themselves, imagine how stimulating they would be on a date! Just as bad are those which scream of desperation, or have a rescue complex. But this is great news for OUR readers, because you are now going to stand out as a creative and clever person amongst the yawners, oddballs, and desperadoes. You’re welcome. You just can’t make this stuff up, and we didn’t!
All we did was look at some random pages of dating profiles and just pulled these typical taglines. We had to stop ourselves, because they just went on and on. Starting to get it? Use a dating profile headline to showcase your unique personality, or to grab someone’s attention. And no, we can't “make you love again”.