Handsome, charming, smart, kind and giving? Sounds like the perfect guy right? When you meet a man who seems like the man you ve been waiting for your whole life, instead of embracing the moment we sometimes get scared and nervous. Although this is the man of your dreams you wonder if you are the woman of his? It isn’t always easy to keep your cool but here are a few guidelines for getting Mr. Right and more importantly keeping him interested in dating you. The reason being, true love is instinctual. If you believe that you will meet the right man then you don t need to approach the wrong ones.
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Recognize if you re approaching men out of the need to control your circumstance or out of impatience or insecurity. Are you willing to let what is meant for you, come to you? Utilize your attraction skills, body language and eye contact to make approaching you easy and comfortable. Men appreciate women who are open and easy going. I suggest flirting with heavy eye contact, getting close to, maybe even bumping him or walking past him and letting him speak to you.
You can make it as easy as need be without seeming obvious. Some people might say, well, what does it matter who talks to who? If a man wants to talk to you, trust that he will. Give yourself at least that much credit. Your only job is to welcome the interaction by being inviting and light-hearted.
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This is advice taken from the infamous self-help book The Rules and I believe that it works. Some people might call this a game but dating is a game. If you don t play by the rules then you risk losing a man to a woman who does. If a man contacts you and invites you on a date, in his mind he is courting you. There is no need to feel bad or think that you aren’t doing enough to show that you like him.
Give him the space he needs to be the man he wants to be. If that man isn t aggressive enough then tell him so or stop dating. Wait for him to call you [not by the phone of course] and end phone calls first. I know it sounds strict and old-fashioned but again, human emotion is powerful. When you compliment someone, you re going out of your way to make them feel good.
You show that you are confident because you aren’t waiting for them to boost your ego with kind words. When you can praise a man’s good qualities he is appreciative. Men want to be appreciated just as women do. Make it appoint to recognize the man you re dating for the little things that he does. Be genuine and thoughtful.
Tell him that he s smart, kind, caring, a great date and wonderful to be around. When you think a kind thought share it.