Eric is a self-employed artist who writes about modern culture. You can follow him on. There is a myth that you have to be good-looking to get laid with online dating. While it definitely helps, it s not required. Even if you haven t been gifted with a face so beautiful that makes the baby Jesus weep at it s glory (like me), you can still get laid with online dating using just your words. If you can write, you can seduce. Here s how: The classic writing advice show, don t tell also applies to online dating.
Online Dating How to Write the First Message or Email
For example, look at these two profiles: 6) I m the class clown among my friends. I m really good at making people laugh, and like to have a good time. 7) For our first date, we can go anywhere except McGrady s, because I m banned for life after firing a plastic arrow into the owner s eye s arm on Halloween, while dressed as Cupid. In my defense, I was aiming for his girlfriend, but confessing to flirting with his girl probably won t get me back in.
The first guy is about as funny as dead puppies. The other never has to explicitly tell us he s funny or does crazy stuff, because he shows us. Always be show in your profile, never tell. We had sex fifteen minutes later. It was fine, but her pussy labia were beat up and stretched out, looking like old roast beef.
How to Write a Dating Profile That Will Get You Dates
By describing the state of her pussy, Roosh shows the girl was lying. If he simply told his readers but seriously, that girl was really slutty, they might not believe him. Through providing the right details, he leads the reader to his conclusion, while making them think it was theirs. Good writing can lead people to things you couldn t explicitly say. I ve actually dropped full stories and dialogues into my profile.
For example, imagine a profile opening with this: Indian Roommate: Write that you always practice safe sex. I know because you leave your Magnum condoms littered all over our shared bathroom. Me:
My seed is powerful. It raises the vibration of our toilet bowl. Or your toothbrush, when my aim is bad. Indian Roommate: I hope you don t get laid, and I never have to clean that up again.
If I wrote I m funny, get laid a lot, and have a big penis, no one would ever believe me. Because I used a story, it wasn t qualifying or approval seeking, and girls pick that information up from the details.