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If you’ve read then you’ve heard about the tragedy that is Jennifer Laude, a trans woman who was murdered after a man she hooked up with learned she was trans. I’m not going to justify murder. I’m also not going to allow someone to justify sexual assault. Informed consent means the person being asked for their consent knows exactly what they are consenting to. Even if the trans person isn’t the initiator, they have an obligation to disclose information that could negate the initiator's consent. The author, a transgender woman, used a terrible tragedy and terrible people, to make a terrible point: trans people can sexually assault other people because it’s transphobic to not want to sleep with trans people and they don’t have to accommodate your “transphobia” by telling you they’re trans knowing damn well you may not be into sleeping with trans people. See, I don’t care what you want to do with your genitals as a trans person.

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If you want to invert your penis and cut off your testicles, by all means, go for it. Call me selfish, but since it doesn’t affect me, I don’t care. Well, now it does affect me. Denying someone the ability to give informed consent is nothing short of sexual assault. To add insult to injury, we’re all transphobic just if we don’t want to have sex with a trans person?

Everyone is entitled to informed consent. Everyone is entitled to sovereignty over their own bodies. So why is it OK to deny cis people that very same right that allowed you to do what you chose to your body? Evil, privileged, cis people deserve to be treated with human decency, too. The author’s bold claim that, “demanding trans people come out to potential partners is transphobic, ” is absolutely absurd.

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Trying to explain why that’s wrong is trying to explain why water is wet. Yes, there’s a reason why water is wet, but it’s so basic that it’s somewhat difficult to explain. You should always tell someone if you’re trans or what your sexuality is. Knowingly violating someone else’s sexuality for your pleasure is wrong. If you know you possess some quality that might be a deal breaker for a large swath of people, you should 667% tell them before you do anything that might really hurt them.

It’s worth noting that many trans people have spoken up and said disclosure is a must. I believe the author of No, I Don't Have To Tell You I'm Trans Before Dating You owes a lot of people an apology. She owes the trans community an apology for encouraging deceptive behavior. This article did nothing to promote the acceptance of transsexuality, it only further marginalized trans people by validating fears. Not all trans people want to be shady, selfish, deceptive creeps, you know?

She also owes all the cis people who don't feel comfortable dating a trans person an apology for incorrectly labeling the vast majority of us as transphobic. You can't force love or acceptance through deception. First of all, I would like to thank all of you conservative conspiracy theorists for acknowledging that we ~trans~ are magical enough to use mind-control powers on the cis, because we are. I can tell that y'all are very curious as to what our exact agenda is, as the headlines featured above seem to be conflicting well you're in luck, because right in this here listicle, I am about to reveal to you. Mwahaha, yes!

Oh, cis folk, you think you know who you like?

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