In a series of focus groups online and in cities across the U. S. These are some of the key themes and responses we heard during these data-gathering sessions. It was relatively rare for teens in our focus groups to talk about meeting romantic partners online. Some teens explained that they would not trust someone they met online because of the likelihood of misrepresentation, while others were generally distrustful of all strangers online. Some girls don’t really look like they do [on] Instagram. That’s why you’ve got to meet. But despite this general wariness, some teens did describe meeting romantic partners online.
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These teens often mentioned social media as a platform for meeting potential partners. I was dating this girl that I met through a social website that probably hardly anybody knows about. So it’s a dating website for teens. It’s called MeetMe. It was like, oh, what the hell.
I’ll try it. And I met a girl on there and she lived up in [location]. I still talk to her, but we’re not together. I just met a girl on Facebook, like, messaged her and then met her in person. That was all.
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I just met her. I’ve met a person over Instagram, actually. Direct messaged them. And we talked for about a week, and then I decided he actually seems kind of chill. I’m going to give him my number.
And then I took it slow, like cause meeting someone over the internet isn’t always the best idea. So if you’re going to do it, like do it very carefully. During the focus groups, technology – and especially social media – often was described as an integral part of the courting process for teens. Teens also spoke about social media as an information-gathering tool that helps them find out all sorts of information about a potential partner, like whether they are dating someone or not. Well sometimes you might use social media to see if, like, they’re going out with someone or something.
Many teens in our focus groups described flirting with a crush by liking their photos or posting a comment on their social media profile. These interactions have their own unwritten – but widely understood – rules. Everything from one’s choice of emoji to the spelling of the word “hey” can carry a deeper meaning. When I have a crush on someone and I want them to know I go on their page and like a lot of pictures in a row. Like all of them.
Like, like, like, like, like, like all the pictures.