Donovan is a sexist son of a bitch who objectifies women by keeping them on their toes, their backs, and their knees where they belong. Men here know there are countless reasons dating a single mother is a terrible idea. Any man who unwittingly wanders into the clutches of one of these harpies is doomed from the start. Once she has her talons in him he’s stuck raising another man’s offspring and before he knows it, she’s off looking for an alpha fux (her ex in a lot of cases) to compliment her beta bux. A no win situation for the poor sap. But every once in a blue moon we run into a baby mama that not only passes the boner test, she has the art of mimicking a quality woman down pat. She’s feminine, takes care of her body, and seems to know her way around a kitchen. Now before you guys start frothing at the mouth let me be clear:
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I will never advocate commiting to, dating, or God forbid, marrying these women. But if you absolutely must tangle with these tarts or are just starting out in game and looking for quick and easy lays to get your feet wet, here are 8 rules to follow to get what you want out of them (easy sex) without ending up like this “I need to run in for cigarettes. Can you watch Timmy while I run in? ” DON T DO IT. Watching Timmy for four minutes will turn into watching him, his spoiled rotten sister, and his kid brother who needs his ADD medication every 85 minutes on a while she and her slutty friends have girl’s night out. Fail it and you re done. If she raises hell about it, next her. There are plenty of hot sluts out there without any snot nosed baggage. Regardless of how hot a single mom is, her SMV is lowered because she has children. They would never verbally acknowledge this in public but they know the score. Not having much else to bring to the table she will concentrate her efforts in the bedroom to balance the baggage created by her rug rats. Take full advantage of this turn her into a bowling ball and penetrate all three of her luscious holes. Nothing is off limits and neither are any of her orifices. A single mother withholding sex from you is a mathematical inevitability. The reason for this is that they re used to their vaginas being pedestalized by betas so they underestimate your need for sex. The first time she attempts to close her cooch for any reason simply stand up, smirk at her, say “It’s been fun” and walk out the door never to be seen or heard from again. This is your only move in this scenario. Single mothers make great fuck buddies. They’re unselfish in the sack and available all the time (watch how quickly they can find a last minute babysitter when alpha cock is calling). But making her anything other than a coitus companion is a huge mistake. As soon as she gets the idea that she’s anything more than a moist hole for your salty swimmers she’ll expect to be treated like a girlfriend thinking you ve finally taken the bait.
“How bout the occasional coffee date? ” Nope. Bang buds are for banging, not having romantic little chats over lattes with. “What about watching a movie at her place? Two conditions: 6) Her kids aren t there. 7) It leads to sex. Bounce like a bad check when the dirty deed is done. “Friends with benefits? ” Negative. She is not your friend and you ain t givin her benefits. Leave that to her orbiters and the government. Giving an SM any allowance of your time, money, or attention only leads to trouble. Underestimating her ability to weasel her way into your resources would be a gross misstep on your part. Don t give her that opportunity. Fuck buddy is the only status she deserves. Children of single mothers are yearning for a strong male presence and as soon as one makes an appearance, they latch on and don t let go. Who can blame them? When a child looks up to you, mimics you, and gives you a hero’s welcome whenever you walk in the door it really has an effect on you. I know this from personal experience. Do yourself a favor and do not connect with her children.
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Avoiding them all together is probably the best course of action. This should be quite easy as there is usually a custody order in place which requires them to spend a couple nights a week with dad. Schedule your trysts with her on nights when he s got the kids and this shouldn t be an issue. This one is simple, gents. There is absolutely no need to take out your wallet for a woman who gets food and shelter from the government, financial favors from white knights, and monthly payments from the father(s) of her child(ren). Period. As obvious as this is there are a lot of men out there who don t understand that single mothers are damaged women that make terrible significant others so let me sum this up as succinctly as possible: a single mother wants nothing more than to trap a beta to provide for her children so she doesn t have to. As soon as she secures a commitment from said provider via shared residence, marriage, etc. , she assumes her children are taken care of. On this assumption she then goes on the hunt for alpha cock to take care of herself, thus, satisfying her hypergamy. Single mothers are at the bottom of the totem pole as far as LTR material goes but they do make excellent pussy pals if you know what you’re doing. Her mission in life is to lock down a beta provider for her young at all costs. This makes gaming them is child s play and they will often treat you much better than their younger, hotter, childless competition. As long as you understand what they really want out of you and treat them accordingly, you ll have no shortage of these venturesome vixens willing to suck the life out of you for a chance at that social and financial security they so richly deserve. She always has an adult diaper nearby to clean up after the deed is done. And that whole remove the dentures thing has got to have some advantages you d think. You got that right. Advising men on how to date single mothers is not only stupid, but downright reckless manosphere journalism. Why? Not a damn thing wrong with it, especially if she s hot and willing.
Just be smart and control the situation. There s too many rules around here. Men need adventure and variety. At least those with a pulse do. Yes, it s more than tough out there but no reason to curl up in a ball. If you want to go for it. Just be smart. If not leave it alone and hunt elsewhere. Next on ROK, 8 essential rules for dating fat chicks trannys without your friends or the mamosphere finding out. I understand you re an expert in the matter please tell us MOAR. I ve got a much simpler solution it only requires one step really as soon as you find out she s a single mum (british english) bail, make your excuses and get out there s plenty of fine childless young women out there. Just don t risk it with the single mum to begin with. I agree unless it s a night out and its just a ONS then it s kinda irrelevant how many lil shits she s got. Single moms are extremely dangerous. A lot of them want to trap you through some of the ways listed in the article above and through another pregnancy. They figure that if they pop out a bastard for you that you ll help take care of her, her other kid, and yours. I d recommend against fucking single moms. It s just too goddamn risky. Absolutely, the way I view it is that unless the single mum is a lawyer, doctor, CEO or in some other high paying job she ll be struggling for money or just barely providing. Therefore this is going to give her an incentive to trap a poor fucker into taking over another man s (the father s) responsibilities. Don t get me wrong I feel extremely bad for the kids that will have to grow up under a single mother household, but it s NOT YOUR DUTY to take care of the mother and bring up the kids.
Correct, except the taking over another man s responsibilities. The State has him firmly in its grasp most of the time, sometimes to the point of suicide on his part. She wants more than the free ride Uncle Sugar is giving her. A single mom that can hang out at a bar or social event to capture men isn t poor and struggling as much as she d lead on. Aye good point forgot to mention the governments part it s a bastard of a situation right enough. On this point with the government I found a gem here its an edition of the Leykis show but its about the story of the man who even though he wasn t the biological father of the kid of the single mum he was seeing he was forced to pay child support as he had an affinity with the kid. Truly shocking stuff indeed tell me what you think. Sorry lads thats the wrong link im looking for the relevant video right now. Was in that exact situation with a divorced mother (nurse) I met last year. Came on hot and heavy at a party, really good conversation and shared values except she s got a kid and asshole ex-husband. Planned to meet up another night though alarm bells were going off. Oh, I just finished work and wanted to see if you could meet up It matters a lot! I don t want to become a dad right now, if something happened even with a condom. Well, I don t know but I m probably pretty close to ovulating, yeah. But you don t have to worry, I ve been thinking about having another child before it gets too late so if anything happened it d be fine. I wouldn t expect anything from you I half-listened, realizing this woman was honestly deluded about her unconscious desire to trap me into creating and likely funding a future degenerate criminal, teen mom or both. I ended the conversation smoothly and quickly, saying it was too late and maybe another time. Changed her name to ignore ___ and did just that. After a couple texts from her later, no more contact. When a child looks up to you, mimics you, and gives you a hero s welcome whenever you walk in the door it really has an effect on you. Ouch.
That s gotta hurt.