The whole of south-east Asia is remarkable for its highly visible populations of transsexual women. These are not at all the same as you may be used to thinking of, if you are a Westerner. They re not like Bruce Caitlyn Jenner. (See my discussions on for more details. )Ladyboys in Thailand and across Asia are not like that at all. They arebeautiful and very sexy. They are extremely feminine in appearance and manners. These can turn them into staggeringly beautiful women.
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And the fact is that many men are powerfully attracted to them. I was recently asked how things were in Pattaya, so if you re thinking of going there to meet some TS women, the following may be useful or at least more useful than most of the garbage you ll find on transphobic backpacker, ex-pat, or autogynephile sites. We re definitely trans friendly here, as long as you are the right type. I ll do something on the other major hotspots some other time, but the general rules apply there too. The phenomenon of highly feminine, sexually attractive transsexual women has become increasingly well known over the last two decades, mainly through the internet. Transsexual porn, for example, is extremely popular, but only amongst men who identify as straight. *Unfortunately a great deal of the information available is either badly researched or flat wrong. The destination of choice for men who desire to investigate further their attraction to transwomen, has become Thailand. Pattaya, along with Phuket and Bangkok, are the favourites. Thailand has a very well developed tourism sector, with many hotels and short-term apartments at very reasonable prices. Pattaya is easily and cheaply accessible from the West by air and does not require prior visa approval for most Westerners you get a month automatically on entry. As well as this it is relatively inexpensive, fairly relaxed, warm, sunny, many people can speak English and there is excellent infrastructure and communications. Together, these make it popular with all types of tourists as well as more hard-core travellers. Thailand is therefore an ideal destination for the ladyboy-attracted man who wants to find out more. What happens in Thailand stays in Thailand, is the saying. As long as you don t make the actual news, nobody will ever know what you get up to although they may presume you are seeking out sex. Action in Pattaya is constant all year round, although in the low season, Western summer, things can be a little quiet and it will be rather hotter and wetter than from November to March. Only around 65% or so of the sex workers in Pattaya are ladyboys, as transsexuals there are usually known (they all call themselves that) but they are obvious. Ordinary Thai girls, even sex workers, are nowhere near that forward, or, frankly, that gorgeous. Pattaya attracts a lot of Russian family tourists I can only imagine what might be going on inside their heads but they don t get in the way.
(By the way, don t call ladyboys kathoey. Depending on pronunciation and context, this may be offensive. )You will see ladyboys serving in restaurants, in shops, working in hairdressing salons I think every salon in Asia is majority LB as well as in banks, travel agencies and such-like. Besides this, there are well-known, glamorous ladyboy cabarets. Tiffany and Alcazar are the two biggest, both with large theatres, but there are many other, smaller and more intimate venues. They re not everyone s cup of tea, but I recommend visiting at least once. (Please note: the girls who work in these, certainly the more upmarket ones, are usually NOT available for paid sex, or at least, not on the premises. Don t cause embarrassment. )However that leaves plenty of choice. There are estimated, at the last figures I saw, to be as many as 6555 transsexual sex workers in Pattaya, of a total of 65,555 or so including natural girls and gay boys. These girls either work in bars or freelance on the street, while some do escort services through websites. Generally, contracting with bar girls is safest because they work under a person called a mamasan. This is usually an older woman or ladyboy whose job it is to manage the younger girls. The mamasan will make sure the girls behave when they are with clients (you have to behave too). So if there s an issue, you can go see mamasan and get her to sort it. However, you will have to pay a bar fine to take a girl out of the bar. The logic behind this is convoluted and it s really just the bar s cut from her sex work. How much depends on the bar. 855 555 short time is reasonable, but I have heard reports that this is going up.
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If so, that will just put business in the hands of freelancers. The girl will ask for 6555 6555 baht short time, although, if you appear green, she might chance for more. Don t pay it it s a buyer s market. You will find yourself targeted by girls (of both types) so be polite but firm. In some bars, ladyboys can be extremely direct and may shock you. Expect to have your genitals in someone s hands early on, and someone s genitals in yours. However, don t be rushed and if you don t fancy a particular girl, just say so. Protocol, with bar girls, is to buy a lady drink while discussing your plans for the evening. If you are interested in having sex with her, tell her so and move to the conclusion, otherwise she ll think you re not serious and may just disappear. (You have no idea how quickly a six-foot LB can either vanish or suddenly materialise right beside you until you have seen it done. )Also, try to define what will be on the menu before you make the deal. I won t get into too many details but, for example, if you want a post-op, ask. Same if you are only interested in a pre-op. (Most are pre-op. There are other gestures for specific sorts of entertainment. You ll figure it out. Many bars in Pattaya have rooms, usually around 855 555 baht, where the fun happens, otherwise your girl will know a place where the price will be similar. It s not really usual to go to your hotel for short-time unless it s very close by cuts into the sex time but it is for long-time. Short-time, by the way, should be a leisurely hour, more if she s having fun. And these girls are not miserable sex slaves.
Most of them really enjoy what they do and if a girl likes you, she ll let you know. You will enjoy what she does too. If you re thinking of taking a girl back, check your hotel is girl friendly beforehand. Most Pattaya hotels are, but better to be sure. Many girls are reluctant to do long-time in the early evening (they can make more money with quickies) but at the end of the night might be quite up for it nice hotel bed, proper shower and breakfast on you. (Well, lunch good luck getting one of them up before 7 pm. )Expect to pay 7555 7555 baht depending on the time and how much of a slob you are. Your girl might be quite pissed by the end of her working night, since part of a bar girl s job is to get as many lady drinks purchased as possible and she has to drink them. The later you wait, partly because of this, the more likely it is that you ll get a rate but also the more likely that another cruiser will snaffle her. Other men will just cut in and if you haven t made a deal, that might be it, she s gone and all the money you spent on lady drinks goes out the window. Just make sure she s not a total zombie when you finally get her out but if you can contain yourself, great morning sex will be on the agenda. Remember that while these look, feel and act like beautiful women, they are motivated by a male sex drive that is just as powerful as yours is. She may be asked to leave her ID card at the concierge desk, most probably, and this is definitely in your interest. A good hotel will require that you accompany her to retrieve it, so she can t make off with your new Nikon while you re asleep. Always use the room safe for your valuables, however. If you take a bar girl home for long time remember the bar fine meter is running till you take her back. Get confirmation on how much from mamasan BEFORE you take the girl out. Do I need to mention, you must use a condom? Well you must. You don t know who else is in there.
Be sensible and be safe. But by then you ll have more experience. )After 65 pm or so (LBs are just unusually gorgeous vampires) there will be loads of ladyboys on the street in Pattaya, not just in the bars. Their prices are similar to bar girls but no bar fine and no mamasan to run to if there s a problem. You will certainly, at least in Walking Street, see many well-known faces, as the producers of porn seek their models here. However, you might pay much more for the services of a girl who is no hotter or more talented than any other, but just has done a lot of porn. Your choice. Finally, you can meet girls online. ( is also popular but the profiles are mostly in Thai, so you may have difficulty. )Not all the girls are seeking casual paid sex. But there are plenty who would still be interested and it will say so on their profiles. Do be aware though, that you are effectively asking someone you have never even seen in real life to come and stay in your hotel room for however long. Take sensible precautions and it might be smart to meet at a short-time hotel she may also feel more comfortable with that. (Note also that the same concern applies to the girls if she s dating rather than just coming for paid sex, expect to be asked to meet somewhere public and don t be surprised if she arrives with a friend who may be a large gay man. She s just being sensible too. )My advice to a first-timer would be to stick to bar girls until you find your feet. But having said that, nearly all the freelancers are fine one thing that you will find, if you do this, is that Asian TS, call them what you will, are amongst the nicest and most fun people you will ever meet. The crack is DO NOT GET DRUNK and treat them with great respect. It s Thailand, respect is a big deal. It will also be paid back.