Not wearing a ring is only the beginning of this deception. Sweet Ice Cream Photography/UnsplashJimmy seemed too good to be true. Joan met him one morning when she served him a cortado at her coffee shop. He had her swooning over his knowledge of Asian coffee culture in no time. “He knows things about coffee that even baristas and roasters don’t, and he works in finance! ” she said. He was tall, dark and handsome, and hailed from Staten Island. He was mysterious, and said he hated social media.
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It just wasn’t his thing. Oh and texting and phone calls? Too impersonal. “I’ll see you when I see you, ” was his line. Warning sign number one:
He gave Joan a hotmail address as the only way to contact him. “I think it’s kind of old-fashioned. He sends the most romantic notes. I feel like we’re writing love letters back and forth, like he’s a solider off at war somewhere. “I know!
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It’s so sweet, ” she said. I didn’t want to dash her romantic dreams, but I was assuming she had never taken the Staten Island Ferry before. There is simply nothing sweet or romantic about that at all. “ How many dates have you been on with him? ” I asked, genuinely hoping Jimmy would redeem himself.
I’d lost a significant amount of faith after the Hotmail revelation. “Every night last week! We had sex in the bathroom at the coffee shop, it was so hot! ”“Does he ever spend the night at your place, or does he go home right after you hook up? ” I said, my fears growing.
“Well he has to be up super early to let the construction workers in, so he goes home every night. Why are you asking so many questions? ” She was beginning to get a little huffy. “I’m just curious, ” I said nervously. “I just think it’s a little odd that you don’t have his number, he never sleeps over, and he has a Hotmail account.
”“You’re so judgmental, ” she snapped at me. “You still have AOL, you’re one to talk!