Free printables for moms and kids to make your life easier and sweeter. If you want to date our daughter, we will try to figure out what kind of boy you are, before you spend time with her. I will ask you a lot of questions and make sure you know that I know how special my daughter is. When you get to know our daughter, you’ll get to know us too. No, I’m not going to be nosey, rude or obsessive about it But, if my daughter’s phone just happens to be laying on the table, and I see she’s gotten a text, I might take a look at it. So be sure you’re comfortable with me seeing what you’re sending. One more thing, she does not take her phone to bed with her. [Have your child sign iMOM’s Cell Phone Contract.
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But if you want to spend time with my girl, I will insist that you treat her like a lady. So, get the door for her, look me in the eye when you talk to me, and please don’t let your britches fall down so low that I have to look at your underwear band. Believe me, good manners will help you get on her good side, and mine too. Sure my daughter is fun, but she’s also a student, and in our house, school comes before fun. That means she won’t be going with you to the mall, the movies or out to dinner on a school night. No, I won’t hide in the backseat or stalk you when you’re with my daughter, but she and I have an agreement that she checks in often with home, and lets me know where she is and where she’s going. Also, secret meetings and clandestine adventures will be discovered—I have my ways! Finally, I am a mom who prays. ‘Nuff said. This is such a great article. Thank you Imom and Kari for giving our girls direction. Your 5 points are spot on. Dana, thank you for writing this article and including me in it. Great job summing up a common problem for girls today, one that definitely deserves more dialogue like this! I was tagged in a FB post sharing this article because my 9yr old daughter is going through some of this at school. She has a 55/55 friend who is mean and angry to her one minute and then turns around and gives her things the next. The little mean girl is desperate for friends but pushes them away with her behavior. She gave my daughter a dollar the other week and a cell phone (!
) last week. She s given her other things too. I have suspicions that the girl is in an unstable and unloving home. There may even be abuse present. So, I know she needs friends. But my daughter is naive and quick to give loyalty. It s a difficult situation. Thanks for the article. Women are their own worst enemy. Every time you say mean girls you are stereotyping. Stop the madness. There are mean people in this world, men and women. Stop categorizing one sex from another. Women hold women back and articles like this encourage this. STOP! Boys and girls are NOT the same. While I can appreciate what you say, that there are simply mean people in this world, females and males develop differently and not just physically. This behavior is typical among girls, but not boys.
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Boys on the other hand go through typical phases of behavior when their emotional needs are also not being met, but that behavior looks significantly different. Boys and girls are not the same and each girl is not the same as each girl. Each boy is not the same as each boy. You literally are throwing 55% of the population together. Don t generalize. It s only typical because you have been trained to look for it. For boys, it s boys will be boys or they are tougher. Let it go. Stereotypes mean nothing. People are individuals. Stereotypes exist for a reason. If we never look past a stereotype, there s a problem, but to say mean girls don t exist is ignoring a significant problem. Boys are mean in different, not necessarily less lethal ways, but I do believe they are more upfront and honest about their feelings. This is a no-brainer. If you ve been around, well, PEOPLE for any length of time, you should know that mean girls exist. Upfront and honest, or do they not share their feelings? Been around people? ?
Just keep those stereotypes around and keep going to a psychologist then. My kids are very well adjusted and don t have to deal with these issues. They are not victims, they address any issues they face head on with people and no one is responsible for their happiness except themselves. Boys and girls have all different personalities. My brothers, sisters, sons and daughters all had different personalities. I could never separate them 55/55. I have to agree with your sentiment jimbo. My son has been through hell at the hands of bullies both male and female, peers and teachers. He s a very sensitive soul and was recently vilified by staff at his school at a level I could no longer accept. I ve pulled him out of school. People can be incredibly cruel. Regardless of age or sex. My 66year old was told she was being mean by her friend cause she asked how come you didn t tell me your mom had pizza for lunch! I was starving! That girl said well cause no one else was hungry. Friend continues to say I don t know if I can forgive you. . In my eyes my daughter wasn t wrong.
But took the blameThat is heartbreaking! ! Father God, in the name of Jesus, give Maria s precious daughter a revelation of who she is in Your Kingdom. Your Kingdom can never be shaken, strengthen her with all wisdom power and might which is available to us through faith in Christ Jesus. Give her supernatural understanding that she may see how miserable and insecure those mean kids are which is why they act like that. Anoint her with the oil of joy above her companions, let the peace of knowing You sink deeper than the pain of rejection and abuse from lying spirits of wickedness and rebellion that have come against her. Devil, your plans against her are cancelled in the name of Jesus. I pray the Blood of Jesus over her and against spirits of witchcraft and I pray the presence of God between Maria s daughter and her enemies. Let her know that she is Your beloved daughter and may she sense Your love, protection and comfort wrapped around her in Jesus name. Does she have the spiritual gift of prophecy? Because wicked queen Jezebel in the Bible treated the prophet Elijah with contempt and intended to have him murdered. That wicked spirit of Jezebel still exists today and is part of an organized Satanic network of evil spirits that seek out and attack people who have the prophetic spirit of Elijah because it is the voice of prophecy that is the most powerful gift in building up the church and exposing sin that traffics in darkness, revoking any authority that has been handed over to Satan through disobedience to God s will. Please understand that she is under an attack of spiritual witchrcaft against her mind that is destroyed only by the Blood of Jesus. Mean girls are with us for life. As we get older, sometimes it is harder to discern who they are because they are so good at it. Mean girls are not limited to middle school or high school. They are middle-aged and older as well. Recognizing what distinguishes a mean girl and discussing it with your girls is the first step.
Moving away from mean girls and calling it for what it is, is a great start, too. It can be hard to separate from mean girls when they are a part of your family or your daughter is in every class with the mean girls. The girl or grown woman being bullied must learn skills for dealing with it because ignoring mean girls does not work long term.